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Adulting Adventures: The Good, The Bad, and the Quirky

Writer's picture: Shweta BhosaleShweta Bhosale

Hello Readers, Kem cho!


Let’s face it, adulting is not a walk in the park. It’s not entirely a battlefield either. It’s an experience—a mix of navigating responsibilities, celebrating small wins, and sometimes, just surviving the day. Having spent nearly a decade living independently across different cities, I’ve picked up a collection of good and bad habits along the way. Consider this a cheat sheet for life: embrace the good habits and laugh at (or ignore) the bad ones. Ready? Let’s dive in!


Adulting Adventures: The Good, The Bad, and the Quirky
Adulting Adventures: The Good, The Bad, and the Quirky

Adulting Adventures: The Good Habits That Save My Sanity


1. Mastering Money Management

Rainy days, emergencies, or just plain unplanned chaos come without warnings. That’s why having emergency funds is like having a superhero cape for your finances. I’m still learning to navigate savings and budgets, but hey, better late than never! Don’t worry, I’m not here to bombard you with mutual fund suggestions. Just start small—a little every month goes a long way. Pro tip: label your savings account something fun like “Future Vacay” or “Emergency Sushi” to stay motivated.


Mastering Money Management
Mastering Money Management

2. Time Management: Because We Can’t Bend Time

We all want to do everything at once, don’t we? Juggling work, hobbies, and social life is a circus act, but planning your day makes a world of difference. I’ve learned to prioritize my passions, whether it’s traveling, writing, or binge-watching an entire series (don’t judge). A simple to-do list can do wonders—it’s like having a personal assistant without the hefty paycheck.


Time Management: Because We Can’t Bend Time
Time Management: Because We Can’t Bend Time

3. Cooking: A Life Skill with Benefits

Cooking isn’t just about surviving; it’s therapeutic! Whether it’s whipping up desi classics or experimenting with fusion recipes, cooking gives me a sense of accomplishment. Plus, it’s comforting to know that no matter where I am, I can survive without relying on takeout. My mantra? Start with basic recipes and slowly level up. Bonus: home-cooked food is easier on your wallet and your health.


Cooking: A Life Skill with Benefits
Cooking: A Life Skill with Benefits

4. Self-Soothing: Calm Amidst Chaos

Life can be overwhelming, but I’ve learned the importance of healthy coping mechanisms. Stress, anxiety, and those pesky intrusive thoughts are part of adulting. Whether it’s jogging, swimming, boxing, or just dancing like nobody’s watching, find what works for you. And no, stress-eating an entire tub of ice cream doesn’t count (been there, done that). Your mental health deserves a dedicated care routine, just like your skin.


 Self-Soothing
 Self-Soothing

5. Gratitude: A Life-Changing Perspective

Lately, I’ve been embracing spirituality and believing in something bigger than myself. Gratitude has become my daily mantra. Even on tough days, I remind myself that life moves forward, one small step at a time. Start by listing three things you’re thankful for each day. It’s a game-changer.


Gratitude: A Life-Changing Perspective
Gratitude: A Life-Changing Perspective

6. Communication: The Key to Stronger Bonds

“Communication is the key,” and honestly, whoever said that deserves a medal. Clear and respectful communication strengthens relationships, whether with your partner, family, or friends. And don’t forget to respect boundaries. A simple “How are you feeling today?” can open doors to deeper connections.


Communication
Two friends share a joyful moment, exchanging stories and laughter on a sunny day.

Adulting Adventures: The Bad Habits I’m Trying to Shake Off

1. Reading: My Epic Fail

I’ll admit it—I’m terrible at reading. I start books with enthusiasm, only to abandon them halfway. This year, I’ve set a modest goal of finishing 3-4 books (baby steps, okay?). If you’re like me, try audiobooks or start with short stories. Every little bit counts.


Reading
Reading

  1. Procrastination: My Arch-Nemesis

    Procrastination is my kryptonite. I’ve spent hours scrolling through social media instead of tackling my to-do list. This year, I’ve promised myself to take action, even if it’s just a small step forward. Remember, “Done is better than perfect.”


Procrastination
Procrastination


3. Journaling: The Habit That Never Happened

Every year, I buy a fancy journal, and every year, it sits untouched. Journaling is supposed to be therapeutic, but somehow, I never get around to it. Someday, I’ll crack this code. For now, my thoughts are safe in my head (or on my phone notes app).


Journaling
Journaling

Quirky Hacks and Lessons Learned

  1. Celebrate Small Wins

    Did you pay your bills on time? Cook dinner instead of ordering pizza? Managed to work out even for 10 minutes? Celebrate it! Adulting is about appreciating the little victories that keep us going.


    laughing
    Celebrating life!

  2. Unplugging is Underrated

    Taking a break from screens is like hitting the refresh button for your brain. Whether it’s a weekend getaway or just an hour with a good cup of coffee, disconnect to reconnect with yourself.


    unplugging
    Unwinding

  3. Invest in Experiences, Not Things

    Memories last longer than material possessions. Spend on experiences that enrich your life—travel, concerts, workshops, or even a fun hobby class.


    hobby class
    At hobby class

  4. Build a Support System


    Surround yourself with people who uplift you. Your tribe can be friends, family, colleagues, or even your pet. Share your joys and struggles; you don’t have to carry the weight of the world alone.


    friends
    Support System

  5. Be Kind to Yourself


    You’re doing your best, and that’s enough. Treat yourself with compassion and patience. Adulting doesn’t come with a manual, so cut yourself some slack when things don’t go as planned.


Final Thoughts

Adulting is a rollercoaster ride filled with ups, downs, and loop-de-loops. Embrace the good habits, work on the bad ones, and never forget to laugh along the way. Remember, no one has it all figured out. So, go easy on yourself, and keep rocking this adventure called life.

What’s your favorite adulting hack? Share it in the comments below. Let’s keep the conversation going!

 

Author: Ranjana


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